Pole sisters!

One of my favorite things about pole is that it's easy to start - both physically and mentally. This year I've had the opportunity to introduce three friends so far to pole - and two more might be coming to classes soon. Last year I brought two friends to classes. One even brought one of her friends.
I really did get lucky in choosing a studio. One of the best things about dancing at a place like Poleates is the non-competitive atmosphere. Every friend I've invited to classes has told me how wonderful the other girls and instructors are. I think other studios can end up being gossipy, competitive places where beginners don't feel comfortable. I considered other places before calling Poleates; the positive reviews online and local news articles won me over.
I remember my intro class - Michaela, the instructor, was so patient and was careful to remind us that she was awkward at first too. She laughed with us when we clung to the pole and nursed our bruises, and helped puzzle out the problems. No pressure to get it right away, just encouragement and straightforward, supportive correction. I felt at home immediately. I sure didn't feel sexy, but it was fun and I felt like the moves were within reach.
When I started going to regular classes, the other students were just as helpful. It's a real sisterhood, a community of students. The mixed classes mean that more advanced students can help beginners, and give them something to look forward to. Beginners can ask questions. I studied the advanced students, picked apart their moves, asked dozens of questions when I first started. There were days when I felt all elbows and knees, awkward and frustrated, for sure - but the other students were so welcoming. It becomes a sisterhood. We can be vulnerable and try new things together.
I hope my friends feel as welcome as I did as a new student. With pole becoming more elite every day, it worries me that the beginners could feel left out. It's so important to me that this amazing art form stays accessible.